If you had the power to change one thing in your life......what would it be? I have asked that question many times of people in the community and their answers range from topics of worldwide change down to change in the community. But, I'm not talking about things we can never change like crime, violence, hunger, sickness or global warming.
Those are all things that will take a higher power to change. I'm talking about personal things in your life. When you work on "you" the one thing you have complete control over, it gives you a feeling of self-worth and a feeling of power. It gives you the feeling that you made a difference that really counted for something. Why? Because, when we change something about ourselves that makes us feel better about ourselves we become a better person, a better friend, a better wife, a better mother.
And, when we see that other people are drawn to us not for what they can get out of us but because of who we are, a real friendship develops. Tell me one thing that you would change about yourself if you had the power to do so? This is the time to look deep inside and find out what you have been wanting to change to make yourself really happy.
Okay, by now you are probably wondering well, Marsha what is the one thing you would change about yourself if you had the power to do so! Well, here is it, the one thing I would like to change about myself if I had the power to do so. IT would be to learn how to be poised and relaxed when I speak to a group, whether I know them or not.
The reason why this is so important to me is that whenever I know I am going to speak in a group my heart starts to race and I get short of breath. Panic attacks! I actually met a woman that has a business where she teaches you skills for communicating with class! I'm going to give her a call and see if she can help me.
I hope you'll share your one thing you'd like to change about yourself with me so I can get to know you better as a person.